You only pray to heal, never to cure. And when healing is death, that healing must be accepted with joy. You do not know the cause of the illness. You do not know what the tears are in the auric body that has lead to the illness. You do not know what the karmic debt is that is being resolved through the illness. You do not know how much knowledge is being transmuted into wisdom through this illness. When you are in the midst of so much ignorance, how can you pray for your loved one to get well? And then, when you pray that, you do not know what is well. Well is not a restricted, limited word that tells you that the physical must recover and be healthy again. Well is large, much larger and much wider than just the physical. Often, you pray for someone to be well and there seems to be no response to your answer. The person continues to be unwell and you feel a sense of betrayal, of being let down. You have not been let down. But when you pray with incomplete knowledge and no wisdom at all, that which you ask the universe for, cannot be granted because the universe is more aware than you of the purpose and the cause and the effect of that illness. All you need to do is to completely shield the sick one in violet and green light and believe and with full faith say aloud "……….. is healed". With these words, healing must be manifest and if healing is to be in the form of physical rejuvenation, that will come about. If healing is in the form of release, that will come about too, but the release will be painless, swift and smooth.
Before any healing can be successful, there must be a fullness in the experience of unity. The stronger is the belief that you are the healer and the patient, both, the more effective is the healing process. Bring a visual picture of the person you are healing upon your mind’s vision, and strongly experience the UNITY OF CONSCIOUSNESS. Then begin to heal YOURSELF. Place your hands upon yourself, direct your attention to your own emotional and mental bodies, say to yourself, I acknowledge you, I accept you, I forgive you, I love you. All dis-ease stems from self-rejection, self-loathing, self-negation, self-denial. Understand that you draw to you the person who needs the same healing AS YOU DO, as consciousness is without boundaries. Do not be fooled by the outer trappings of the illness and say “I do not have this illness’. The only true healing follows the dictat Healer, heal thyself!”