Becoming Your Future Self
- EllaeenahJF
- Apr 10
- 4 min read
©EllaeenahJadeFire
There comes a moment on the path of self-awareness when you pause, look around at your current life, and feel an inner pull toward something more—something deeper, wiser, more You. That pull isn’t fantasy. It’s a future version of yourself calling out to you. This is not a version dictated by the ego, but one that aligns with your soul’s blueprint.
Becoming your future self is less about ‘doing’ and more about ‘embodying’. It’s a sacred unfolding, and a conscious relationship with your fullest potential. This process asks not only for vision but for commitment.

In the quantum field every version of you already exists. The version of you that is grounded, loving, courageous, intuitive, creative, and deeply at peace—that version lives within the frequency of NOW. The future ‘you’ isn’t something you need to achieve … it’s someone you must reclaim.
But what keeps us from becoming that self? We’re often loyal to who we’ve been because that person (that we’re used to being) is comfortable, a known factor. Our current identity is shaped by repetition—repeated thoughts, patterns, roles, and stories. It becomes familiar, and what’s familiar often feels safe. This is an illusion of safety. Growth doesn’t emerge out of familiarity. Growth is the consequence of a consistent search for our authentic self. Growth takes place when we realise that our comfort zones are our places of stagnancy. And often laziness.
Let’s pause here for a few moments. Review your life as you are experiencing it at present, and ask yourself:
What version of myself am I unconsciously committed to?
What habits or emotional states keep me tied to an old identity?
Is my comfort zone dearer to me than my potential? And, if it is so, then why?
Do I see growth as an exciting challenge or a daunting proposition?
Spend some time unravelling these insights before you read on.
You may not be hearing your future self, but it is constantly speaking to you. It whispers through your dreams, synchronicities, longings, and inspirations. It comes to you in the dead of night, in the early morning stillness, in that ‘OMG’ moment during a podcast or a show, and so on. Do not allow these moments and synchronicities, dreams and longings, to pass unheeded. Journal each and every one of them. They may not make sense to you, they may seem to have no pattern --- appear ‘random’. Journal each one anyway. As you commit to this, the whispers of the future self shall get louder, and a clear pattern shall begin to emerge. Be patient. Be committed. YOU are worth it!
After a few weeks of this, expand the process in this way --- (i) Spend a few minutes daily visualising your future self. Not just what they do, but how they feel. How do they move? Speak? Set boundaries? Have fun? This is you bringing your future self into the present. Enjoy this intentional imagination. (ii) Each day why not make a to-be list along with your to-do list? “Who do I wish to be today?” Put down three qualities that you believe you most require on that day. Through the day consistently embody these qualities. (iii) Change your frequency. It’s easier than you think. Words shape vibration. Shift “I hope I can…” “ I wish I could…” ‘I want to, but…” into “I am becoming.”
Becoming your future self is about small, daily acts of alignment. It’s the tiny sacred choices that we make again and again. Growth does not require something big done once in a while. It follows the small changes we make repeatedly, continuously, consistently. It involves showing up for ourselves on every single occasion.
When you have endeavoured enough on the first two steps as given above, you are ready to delve deeper. In your joyful imagination of your future self, now proceed with these questions:
What does my future self say No to?
Why is there no guilt when my future self says No?
How does my future self soothe itself when it is triggered?
What kind of thoughts does my future self no longer harbour?
What does my future self already know that I need to remember today?
At this point you might be wondering what useful purpose this visualisation can serve. Even if your outer world hasn’t caught up yet, even if your present conditions still appear to be the same, when you make choices as your future self , from a place of growth, from a position of unravelling potential, you collapse time. You access timelines that exist, and choose the one where your present desire is already a reality. Scientists working on quantum energy have become aware of this mysterious way of manifestation.
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Your future self is not a finish line—it’s a way of being. Every day you get to decide this, by making a choice. A free-will choice. Will I continue to be my old self out of habit? Will I show up as the person I am becoming?
This isn’t about perfection. It’s about alignment. Your future self doesn't require you to have it all figured out. It just needs you to show up. To believe. To try again even though there will be times when we feel ‘I can’t do it’. You don’t have to rush. All you have to do is choose growth—over and over again. Let your thoughts rise to meet another frequency. Let your actions align with that rhythm. Let your words manifest the choice for growth.
You’re Not Becoming Someone Else. You’re Returning to Who You’ve Always Been.
The thrill of becoming your future self isn’t about self-improvement. It’s about self-remembrance. You’re not behind. You’re not broken. You’re just in the becoming.
There is no perfect version of you. There is only the true version. Don’t settle for anything less.
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